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Donna
Posted 2003-03-12 7:42 AM (#4874 - in reply to #4865)
Subject: Not Being Loved


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if nothing else, it makes us look at what we're getting in return for how we're being with another. if abuse is what we're getting back, whether it's mean-spirited words, or being physically assaulted, possibly it's because we're afraid that this 'one' doesn't think we're loveable, that we're worthy of their love in return. so the armor goes up (we are now in control) and we protect ourselves from the fear of not being loved, not being worthy of another's approval(?), just afraid of not being liked. fear people have about Themselves is the basis of war .

simply if we're getting shit back it's because we're putting shit out.

1st time it's a happening
2nd time it's a coincidence
3rd time it's a fact
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