with heartfelt thanks for the connection, lynn ... waving/typing hello with left hand ... as right hand seems this a good time to take a break literally [smile] ...and talk about a first hand introduction into what it means to be suddenly helpless ... and knowingly dependent.     

...enjoyed finding reminder of bette midler's ... from a distance [god is watching us] on your twitter cafinus site ...wish i could post the link ... oh there's house sister ... glad we can hear/enjoy it together-ish

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lN4AcFzxtdE