hi rissey~

i think you are misunderstanding ammi a little. the true intimacy he is shooting for is the complete saturation and blending of one soul with another......... this occurs in mind and the experience of the physical is the icing on the cake so to speak. 

you said that intimacy is not just physical but mental and spiritual. perhaps the  better way of sequencing it is that intimacy is spiritually original and ongoing......... which grows in recognition in mind......... to be demonstrated in acts of affection (not necessarily sex). the sexual embrace as a demonstration of true intimacy......... is an act of selfless giving in response to this deep abiding union.

God in Infinite Bliss......seeded Life into the void. and that "primary ejaculation" seeded all the life that is. sex....... although an imperfect reflection of that moment......is one way of remembering that perfect Joy......... and within the embrace of our beloved....... reflects it superbly.  it is a blessed way to share the joy of Life in expression.

i have never experienced this level of intimacy with the grocery clerk or my sisters........ only with a lover where there is no separation...... no mind games........ no barriers ........ just Love enjoying itSelf in an eternal moment of uninhibited giving. 

it would be nice to feel this same depth of loving exchange with everyone. i am sure the best is yet to come (smile).

lovingthetingles*
amena